Good Morning

Good Morning
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Happy Saturday.

We had guests last night, what a nice time!
The girls are watching a film from the library.
I am making carrot ginger soup.
We are painting the ceiling (ouch my neck!).
It is unseasonably warm and a hike is calling my name- I need to spend some time with my son.


I am working part-time with women who are fleeing domestic violence and living in a shelter. Their lives are turned upside down and many have numerous lessons to learn. I think it's good. I love that my paid work in life has been used to make life better for people. I have learned to see beneath the exterior of people, to know there is not necessarily bad or good but a complicated history. Everyone has a story. At my last job, I worked a full-time with foster children, their biological parents, their foster parents and all service providers they were linked with. Stories of a 12-year-old orphan who was sent to live with a distant aunt and forced to sleep in the dog house with the dogs all winter or the girl who witnessed her mother's murder at 6 or the toddler who is the same age as your own daughter with an intentionally broken leg are hard to keep in objective perspective. A wave of urgency runs through your veins to help all be well for these kids. Yet in many ways, integrating and fixing these dark places will be their own life's journey. I could only assist in their safety and external success. As a result of this work, I can never see an adult without imagining the child in them. The child who hurt, the child in fear, the child without a voice, the child who may have moved from stranger's home to stranger's home with a black garbage bag full of broken toys and holey clothes always enters my mind when interacting with a difficult adult. I see that child in everyone-even my own mother.

I am particularly excited to see the film Precious, a story of a 16-year-old girl in Harlem who weighs 350 pounds, has been abused by her mother and is pregnant fro a second time by her father. Given my career path, I can say I know this story and I look forward to this film inspiring many to see the child in all people.

Have a good Saturday!